Divorce is an enormous life challenge.
Whether it is a shocking new change or a long planned one, the process of leaving a marriage demands so much of us!
Too often, we face it feeling isolated and alone, which breeds shame, helplessness and overwhelm. Not exactly a recipe for a successful split.
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Imagine that you have a place to go for answers to all your questions.
Picture yourself at dinners, sunset sails and story evenings with a group of smart, game compassionate fellow travelers.
Envision yourself with the confidence to ask for what you need from all the professionals you work with.
See yourself becoming whole again.
We help you to build strength and resilience.
At UNtied, we assist you by providing:
Education
Learn what you need to know about finances, real estate, and the various divorce process options – so you can feel confident and competent moving forward.
We offer:
- An audio archive of digital recordings of Zoom calls with experts
- UNtying the Knot, where some of the country’s top experts share info and advice covering law, money, parenting, health & happiness.
Resources
Meet top experts in a wide array of fields related to divorce and your next life chapter – be it law, parenting, work, health, dating, sex, style or money.
Connect with top experts through:
- Two monthly online expert talks followed by Q&A sessions
- Online workshops
Community
At UNtied you can connect with women who truly “get it” and become life-long friends.
Connect with the UNtied Community through:
- Monthly online gatherings where members share their stories on a topic or theme, or discuss a hot new book or movie that relates to our experience
- Monthly ‘coffee chats’ to connect with others and ask questions
- Online and in-person workshops for five to ten women
We provide meaningful support to help you successfully navigate your split and to help you launch a nourishing new chapter in your life.
I feel so so lucky to have learned about Untied. I feel as though I have been given the rare chance to expand and love in a more meaningful way.
This was my first foray into connecting with a group of separated/divorced people and, in all honesty, I was kind of dreading it. I think it was something about not wanting to be a part of that group — “divorced people.” Anyway, it couldn’t have been a more positive experience. You created a really welcoming atmosphere and a safe space for people to share their collective wisdom. Alice was particularly wonderful in offering language for parents to talk to their kids about the holidays. The Idea of “one holiday at a time” very much resonated with me. I left feeling very grateful and realizing there is a wealth of resources in connecting with others who are going through the same experiences.
NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE CYCLE OF DIVORCE –
WE’RE HERE TO HELP.

Find your support –
Become a member.
Feel fully supported with the Full Access Membership- newly revitalized to continue to serve during times like these. As a Full Access Member you’ll receive:
As a full access member you receive the following:
- Attend our twice monthly expert talks or webinars free
- Access to all expert discussion replays
- Access to UNtying the Knot -A series of short videos featuring some of the country’s most experienced and knowledgeable experts who offer advice on how to navigate divorce and build a rich and nurturing life.
- Access to the audio recordings of past events in a private podcast feed, conveniently located in your podcast app of choice
- Monthly online support meet-ups facilitated by founder, Elise
- Free 30-minute private consultation with founder, Elise
- Private directory of UNtied members with the ability to search by state
- Discounts on signature workshops and live events
All for just $35/month, or get 1.5 months free when you purchase an annual membership for $375.
At a moment when I was in complete shock, stunned, and had absolutely no idea how to proceed, it was enormously comforting and helpful to have a group of brilliant women that all had suggestions, strategies, and stories. Knowing you are not alone is big!
ONLINE EXPERT EVENTS
Our events cover the full range of topics women deal with when it comes to divorce, and beyond. Past events have included:
- Splitting with young kids
- Paying for college
- Real estate in splitsville
- Complex divorce
- Financial first steps
- Aging fabulously
- & so many more!
Events an expert (or several!) in their field, ranging from top lawyers to beauty experts.

WORKSHOPS
workshops
You can’t move forward if you’re stuck in a story that holds you back. UNtied offers several unique and effective workshops that guide you through the emotional tumult toward toward a hope-filled new chapter. Grief & Gratitude is a powerful first step in letting go of what was, and making room for the new via writing and poetry.Write Your Story led by an award-winning author and Tell It Sister, led by a master storyteller, help you see your life through a new lens by writing it or sharing it out loud. Veterans of these narrative-based sessions describe them as “life-changing,” liberating, and “riotously fun.” For those who are ready, our Online Dating Workshop offers expert strategies, in addition to makeup, styling and stand out profile photos by an eminent photographer.

RESOURCES
Finding the right professionals can be one of the toughest hurdles of divorce. Start with our carefully curated Professional Directory which lists and describes recommended lawyers, finance experts, parenting specialists and more.
Members also have access to a curated online video series, Untying the Knot, complete with expert advice on Law, Finance, Parenting, and Health & Happiness. Listen to our experts offer valuable advice on handling the holidays, selling the family home, finding the right lawyer, rediscovering sex, and more.

COMMUNITY
community
What frequently tops the list when members talk about what they love about UNtied? Other members. Meeting and being with others who get what you’re going through has a healing impact like almost nothing else.
Whether at one of our live events, in our weekly coffee chats, or on a community call you will have the chance to connect with and learn from other women who have been there. Become one of the many members who’ve found new best friends and a robust social network.

Become an UNtied Member
Feel fully supported with the Full Access Membership- newly revitalized to continue to serve during times like these. As a Full Access Member you’ll receive:
As a full access member you receive the following:
- Attend our twice monthly expert talks or webinars free
- Access to all expert discussion replays
- Access to UNtying the Knot -A series of short videos featuring some of the country’s most experienced and knowledgeable experts who offer advice on how to navigate divorce and build a rich and nurturing life.
- Access to the audio recordings of past events in a private podcast feed, conveniently located in your podcast app of choice
- Monthly online support meet ups facilitated by founder, Elise
- Free 30-minute private consultation with founder, Elise
- Private directory of UNtied members with the ability to search by state
- Discounts signature workshops and live events
All for just $35/month, or get 1.5 months free when you purchase an annual membership for $375.