No matter where you are in the cycle of divorce.



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featured events

Events are free for members and open to all.
Members receive a discounted rate for workshops.

March 12th

All About Postnuptial Agreements (Zoom)

March 17th

Grief & Gratitude Workshop (Zoom)

April 18th

Home Maintenace 101 Expert Call (Zoom)


Developed by founder Elise Pettus as the resource she wished she had when she divorced, UNtied has become a trusted sisterhood, where women can go for support, wisdom and resources on almost any topic related to divorce.

An online community of almost 2,000 women, UNtied offers a nurturing, upbeat membership, meaningful education, and access to the best experts via its online events.

our mission

We help women to feel empowered as they transition from married to re-singled, and provide tools and resources to build great new lives.

Expert Discussions

UNtied hosts twice-monthly online discussions led by experts (lawyers, family therapists, etc.), and conversations with women who have been where you are. View events here.

UNtying the Knot

We’ve boiled down the most critical information shared over seven years of expert panels on divorce and life afterward into this series of short videos.

Curated Professional Directory

Check out our listings of lawyers, therapists, finance experts and more who have been voted “outstanding” by our members and vetted by our team.


Workshops offer opportunities to go deeper in a particular area, such as grief recovery or online dating. Led by leading experts and storytelling creatives.

from our members

“At a moment when I was in complete shock, stunned and had absolutely no idea how to proceed, it was enormously comforting and helpful to have a group of brilliant women to turn to, each of whom had suggestions, and stories. Knowing you are not alone is big!”


“I got my lawyer through UNtied! I was totally clueless about collaborative divorce before going to one of your panels. UNtied saved me a lot of time, pain and money. Eternally grateful!”


“You have given so many of us the tools we need to stand on our own. Thank you!”


“Thank you for creating a safe space for women in the different stages of divorce to share, support, and learn from each other. For many of us, there is no community to turn to for support. Of course, our friends and loved ones reach out to comfort us, but connecting with others going through similar experiences is invaluable.”


Featured articles + Clips

A Second Look at the Vicious Cycle of Divorce

A Second Look at the Vicious Cycle of Divorce

I am one of those children of divorce who grew up only to get divorced myself.  It is the typical sad story.  But then why am I so happy? My parents divorced when I was five.  I don’t recall much, other than a hazy impression of my mother arguing with my father while...

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So, Who Gets the Friends?

So, Who Gets the Friends?

While we applaud Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin's lovely letter informing, um, THE WORLD, of their thoughtful journey through separation, it got us thinking of how little is mentioned in the literature about separation and divorce on what to do about friendships....

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