So you think you might be ready to consider putting your tender battle scarred heart out there again, or maybe just your booty for the moment. Your friends have been on you to put your profile online, but you are dreading it and don’t know where to start. Maybe you’ve been online for weeks or even months and the results are disappointing and you wonder if you are “doing it right.” Perhaps you’ve decided that online dating isn’t for you and you’d like to know what other options there are? Join us for an evening all about dating as a divorced woman in NY. Over cocktails and finger food, we’ll talk about how to approach dating after a long marriage. We’ll cover online and offline avenues to finding love, strategies for success and tips to help you enjoy the search!





Sue Kramer is an accomplished screen writer and filmmaker who founded her own branding company, Connecting Dots Guru. A longtime member of UNtied, she was dated on and off for the last three years and recently met someone. Did she kiss some frogs? Er, we’ll let her tell you.

Elise Pettus, Founder, Editorial Director, UNtied. Even before starting UNtied, Elise was busy researching the various options for dating both online and off. She has explored the world of matchmaking, an array of dating websites and apps. She even went undercover as married on Ashley Madison to see how the experience differed from the re-singled dating options. She has been in a few rewarding long term relationships, met scores of interesting men and had lots of juicy adventures along the way.

Jenny Douglas, Founder, The Brooklyn Cottage, Writer, Grief & Gratitude Workshop Creator and Leader.  Jenny has been profiled in The Woolfer, where she was one of the lead moderators. She has been a featured writer for Huffington Post, the Tuenight series and many other places. Jenny dated for six years before meeting her current partner and love of her life, “Its all about relaxing into this crazy adventure of dating in midlife.”