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No Matter Where You Are In the Cycle of Divorce

EXPERT DISCUSSIONS + WORKSHOPS + COMMUNITY

We help women to feel empowered as they transition from married to re-singled, and provide tools and resources to build great new lives.

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from our members

“At a moment when I was in complete shock, stunned and had absolutely no idea how to proceed, it was enormously comforting and helpful to have a group of brilliant women to turn to, each of whom had suggestions, and stories. Knowing you are not alone is big!”

Liz

“I got my lawyer through UNtied! I was totally clueless about collaborative divorce before going to one of your panels. UNtied saved me a lot of time, pain and money. Eternally grateful!”

Nancy

“You have given so many of us the tools we need to stand on our own. Thank you!”

Ruth

“Thank you for creating a safe space for women in the different stages of divorce to share, support, and learn from each other. For many of us, there is no community to turn to for support. Of course, our friends and loved ones reach out to comfort us, but connecting with others going through similar experiences is invaluable.”

Rochelle

featured events

Events are free for members and most are open to other participants for a small fee.
Members receive a discounted rate for workshops.

Smooth Talking: Communicating with Your Ex-Partner

Online Workshop Almost every conversation with an ex-partner during divorce carries weight from the marriage. The logistics conversation is rarely just logistics. This workshop offers practical language and tools for...

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Money Circle Workshop: Rewrite Your Money Story

The Money Circle Workshop Join us for an intimate evening of reflection, connection, and conversation as we gather to explore one of the most emotionally charged topics in our lives...

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With access to expert panel events, an online community, a curated video series for divorce, and discount workshops, an UNtied membership can get you to the next chapter of your life with grace and knowledge. You’ll most likely make a few new life-long friends along the way!

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THIS ISN'T YOUR TYPICAL SUPPORT GROUP

Developed by founder Elise Pettus as the resource she wished she had when she divorced, UNtied has become a trusted sisterhood, where women can go for support, wisdom and resources on almost any topic related to divorce.

An online community of almost 2,000 women, UNtied offers a nurturing, upbeat membership, meaningful education, and access to the best experts via its online events.

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how we can help

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Expert Discussions

UNtied hosts twice-monthly online discussions led by experts (lawyers, family therapists, etc.), and conversations with women who have been where you are. View events here.

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UNtying the Knot

We’ve boiled down the most critical information shared over seven years of expert panels on divorce and life afterward into this series of short videos.

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Membership Community

Join our active WhatsApp group “The Powder Room” for a welcome dose of camaraderie and advice. As well as community events in and around New York City.

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Workshops

Workshops offer opportunities to go deeper in a particular area, such as grief recovery or online dating. Led by leading experts and storytelling creatives.

You don’t have to go it alone.

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