real-life & livestream panels • workshops • social gatherings
So, Where Are You?
Considering Divorce?

• Hiring a Lawyer
• Telling the Kids
• Separating Finances
• Mediating vs. Litigating
• Knowing your Money
• Moving Out/Staying Home
• Building your Credit

In the thick of it?

• Coping with Grief
• Selling your Home
• Getting Back to Work
• Co-parenting
• Staying Healthy
• Getting Past Anger
• Sharing Custody

Rebuilding your Life?

• Sex & Dating
• Solo Travel
• Blending Families
• Remarriage & Money
• Beauty & Style
• Changing Careers
• Paying for College

Solo Travel

Solo Travel
Nov 9

You don’t have to wait for the right partner to hit the road. Please join us for an evening all about solo and singles travel.  Learn about a host of exciting travel opportunities, (both all women and co-ed), hear from inspired solo travelers, and meet other women ready to explore.

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Grief & Gratitude

Nov 12

In this afternoon workshop, we will meet each other right where we are. Through writing, contemplation, and bearing witness, we’ll explore ideas from grief, anger and despair to forgiveness and gratitude. We’ll clear out what needs clearing out, to welcome what’s longing to come to us next.

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Divorced & Dating
Nov 15

So you are ready to date. Join us for an evening all about dating as a divorced woman in NY. Over cocktails and finger food, we’ll talk about how to approach dating after a long marriage. We’ll cover online and offline avenues to finding love, strategies for success and tips to help you enjoy the search!

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Tell It, Sister!
Nov 18-19

A one day story-telling workshop (November 18th) with The Moth instructor Bonnie Levison culminating in a live performance evening (November 19th). Learn how to structure your story and how to deliver it in front of an audience. Practice in an intimate and supportive environment and finally, tell your story at our final performance for friends and family.

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Can you Buy a Divorce for the Cost of a New Vacuum Cleaner?

We’ve all seen that ad for a $399 “store front” divorce. But is it too good to be true?

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Isabelle Dervaux

What should happen to the family photos after your divorce?

We talked with Brooklyn-based photo organizer Isabelle Dervaux about the redemptive power of family pictures and how to tackle the prickly job of divvying up and organizing them after a split.

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Video Library

Visit our video archive to hear wisdom shared at past UNtied events.

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We asked some of our members to describe their experience of divorce, and what helped them through it. Check out what they have to say.

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